This Week in the Garden: April 18 to May 21

   Guess this post should be called “the past three weeks in the garden”.  Sorry about the delay; work and a cold have kept me from writing.  OK, I am fully aware that those are just lame excuses, but they’re my excuses and I’m sticking with them.

     The past (three) week(s) in the garden have seen weather conditions of biblical proportions.  Temperatures in the 80’s followed by a couple of days of heavy rain (including softball(!) size hail) with heavy snowfall to round out the week.  Fortunately, the Vintage garden was spared the hail but it did take a heavy shot of snow.  The following week brought more temperatures into the eighties followed by more heavy rain and snow.  Ah, Spring Time in the Rockies.  All four seasons in a single month.  Dogs and cats living together!  Mass hysteria!

    

     In my last garden post I mentioned my concerns that the heavy snow might break off the branches of trees that have already leafed out.  While the snow was heavy it had been so warm the previous week that the snow really didn’t accumulate, thus the tree branches were spared.  Yay!

     The bad news is that the temperatures then dropped down into the mid-20s.  I have two honeylocust trees in my yard that were just starting to leaf out.  The tender leaflings(?) on these trees got zapped, as you can see by this photo. 

Zapped

     This is really no cause for alarm, because almost all trees have a secondary set of buds for just such a situation.  The concern now is that the temps dropped down to 30 during this recent snowstorm, and the honeylocusts were once again starting to leaf out.  Here’s hoping the secondary leaf buds didn’t get zapped as well.

     As for what is is currently in bloom here in the Vintage garden:  because of the unseasonably warm temperatures, several of the plants in the border are blooming early.  Seen here are Turkish Veronica (foreground) and the Brunnera (background), commonly known as Siberian Bugloss. 

April showers and unseasonably warm temps bring way too early May flowers.

     I love the Brunerra because it looks a little like a Hosta.  And like a Hosta, the Brunnera prefers shade or light sun.  Unlike most Hostas, many varieties of Brunnera can tolerate dry shade and drought conditions, making them ideal an ideal shade plant for the Colorado Front Range. 

Name that plant!

     This plant here usually blooms in early June.  I cannot for the life of me remember the name of it.  Cleome?  Anybody have any ideas?  I should start a regular post – “what plant is this?” – in hopes that somebody out there can tell me what the hell I have been putting in my yard.  I suppose I would get more responses if I offered a reward.  I’ll give this some thought.

 

Brief moment in the sun.

     Finally, here be an early blooming Iris.  The most recent snowstorm took the burgeoning bloom out.  Well, at least it had a few days in the sun. 

     Most front range garden experts say you should be able to set tender plants out after Mother’s Day.  This year has proven to be an exception to the rule.  I got rid of my veggie garden, but I am planning on putting tomatoes in a couple of planters.  I think I will wait a week or two before I do just so, just to be safe.

     Until the next time, happy gardening my friends!

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Living with regrets.

    

     One of the issues we humans have to deal with as we get older is learning how to live with regret.  Studies of elderly men have shown that usually their biggest regrets weren’t for the mistakes or bad decisions that they made in their life.  No, their biggest regrets were about the things that they didn’t do.

     Lately I have been thinking a lot about some of the paths I didn’t take in my life, and how different my life might have been had I taken them.  A list of my biggest regrets include: not asking the girl I had a crush on in high school out on a date; not taking the cross-country bicycle trip around the American West when I graduated high school; chickening out on taking a trip to Europe when I was 21 and not finishing college in my 20’s.

     I find it most interesting that many of my regrets seem to about chances that I didn’t take while I was in my late teens and early 20’s.  This could mean a couple of things.  Either I took advantage of opportunities that arose when I got older, or I calibrated my wish fulfillment to more realistic levels as I matured.  Perhaps a little of both.

     While feeling a sense of disappointment over things that didn’t work out the way we wanted is perfectly normal, it is important to balance our regrets with the wisdom to recognize of the things that we HAVE accomplished.  In the immortal words of Sheryl Crow: it’s not having what you want, it’s wanting what you’ve got.  Sometimes when I start beating myself up over lost chances, I make a list of things I have seen and done.  It’s actually a rather impressive list.  These lists have led me to the realization that if I had gone through with some of the things I regret not doing my life as I currently know it might not exist!

     Would I go back and trade my marriage to Mrs. Vintage, or the joy of my daughters, or the friends I have gotten to know in my life for the opportunity to bum around Europe?  Emphatically NOT.  However, had I taken that trip to Europe it’s possible I never would have taken the job delivering pizzas to the airmen at the old Lowry Air Force base.  Which means I might not of considered joining the Colorado Air National Guard.  Which means I might have taken a completely different career path.  Which means… and so on and etc.  I could drive myself crazy going too far down that rabbit hole.

     Fortunately for me, a few years ago I read “Bicycling Beyond the Divide”.   Written by Daryl Farmer, it an autobiography/travel book about a 40-year-old man who decides to replicate a bike trip around the western United States that he had taken 20 years earlier. In 1985 Mr. Farmer took the bicycle trip that I didn’t have the courage to take.  What prompted Mr. Farmer to retake his earlier trip was because he was disaffected about parts of his life. The fact that he was seventy pounds overweight and could barely walk up a flight of stairs without panting was another factor in his decision.

     Mr. Farmer admits that his second trip was far more introspective than his first, which you would expect from a man who has 20 more years of experience under his belt.  While the book is an interesting travelogue, the biggest take away I took from this book was this: even though he went on the bike tour I had only dreamed about taking as a young man, he too was dealing with feelings of regret as he progressed into his later years.  I guess the moral of the story (and this post) is: you can’t make it out of this life without a few regrets.

     Even if a person were to accomplish or obtain everything he or she ever dreamed of, they would still have regrets about paths or choices that they didn’t take.  A part of getting older accepting our regrets and then moving on.  The question we must then ask ourselves is: what do I want to do with my life with the time I have remaining?

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This week in the garden April 21-28.

    

     I’ve been thinking about doing regular gardening blog posts. Specifically, I want to write about what is happening in my garden and in the yards and gardens in my region. This here be the 1st such post. We’ll see how it goes.

     So, what was going on in my little slice of Eden during the week of April 21-28?  Truthfully, not a heck of a lot.  Several tulips were in bloom in the back corner (see picture above).  The redbud tree is finishing up it’s bloom, which is good because the snowstorm we’re expecting this weekend would finish off the blossoms anyway.  What few branches that are still alive on the dying serviceberry tree put out a few white blooms, just enough to remind me that I have to cut this tree down later this year.

     That’s about it.  Once upon a time I had big plans on making large swaths of tulips and daffodils in my backyard, but I’ve lost interest in spring bulbs.  Their season of bloom is far too short for the effort it requires to plant them.

     Several of my trees have already leafed out, which seems way earlier than usual.  I worry about a late, heavy spring snow storm coming in and stripping branches off of the newly leafed trees.  Not a damn thing I can do about it if that should happen, so I guess I’ll just have to hope for the best.

    Several of my neighbor’s lilac bushes have been in full, glorious bloom this week.  I love the sight and smells of lilacs, but sadly my lilac shrub caught some sort of plant disease a few years ago and I had to dig it out.  Therefor I have to enjoy my neighbors lilacs vicariously.

     If anybody has pictures of their gardens in bloom, please feel free to share them.  I’m always looking for new ideas.

    Until the next installment, happy gardening my friends.

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